On January 18 2026
I accepted a daytime booking from an Arab client who contacted me and asked me to come to a hotel near Nana Sukhumvit 15.
He requested that I send photos first. I told him that if he sent his photo, I would send mine as well. He sent his photo, and I felt something was not quite safe. However, as a professional, and because it was during the day, I decided not to refuse the booking. I believed that if anything happened, I could protect myself, and the hotel would have people around.
When I arrived, he told me to go directly to the room without using a key card. This is exactly why I usually insist on meeting clients at the lobby first, but that day I was careless and did not want to create conflict, so I went up to the room.
He also chose not to pay in advance, which is another reason why I normally require payment before starting any service. I assumed it would be fine, as he was Arab and Muslim, and in my past experience, I had never had any problems. I believe Muslim people are generally kind and respectful.
After about five minutes of work, he asked me to lie down next to him, which made me feel uncomfortable. He then kissed my cheek and asked if he could kiss me on the lips. I clearly said no.
At that moment, he tried to force himself on me. I stayed calm and protected myself until he stopped and let me go. I told him firmly not to do this to me. I said that I respect myself and that I did not want to be disappointed in him, especially as a Muslim.
Some people say that I have too many rules.
Yes, I do — and for a reason.
I have been working in this profession for 15–16 years. I have seen many situations, both good and bad. Experience teaches you one thing very clearly: you must respect yourself first.
My rules are not about being difficult.
They are about safety, boundaries, and professionalism.
This job carries real risks. Unexpected situations can happen at any time, even when you are careful. That is why I choose to protect myself and set clear rules. I do not apologize for that.
What I want is simple:
I respect myself, and I want to meet clients who respect me in return.